What are some signs that a therapist may have poor boundaries with their clients?
Last Updated: 02.07.2025 19:17
These items can happen fleetingly, briefly, in any therapy, but if they’re frequent, it’s definitely time for the therapist to get some good, solid supervision/consultation.
General Introduction to Boundaries from Panahi Counseling:
Struggling with fantasies of deeper connections with clients, whether sexual or parental or other intense or intimate relationships beyond psychotherapy.
Serious disappointment when the client cancels a session.
Eager anticipation (or anxious anticipation) of the next session in ways that distract.
Off the top of my ancient head:
Atque sapiente quis aspernatur.
Sense of competition with persons who are important in the client’s life.
Obsessing about clients outside of work hours.
Session-expressed curiosities about client details not relevant to the therapy.
Why don't we hear our own snoring?
Routinely going over the time limit with certain patients, compromising the time for the next client.
Failing to mention the client in supervision/consultation, out of fear the supervisor/consultant will advise return to ordinary healthy boundaries.
Disclosing feelings, fantasies, and experiences to the client in ways not related to the work the client is engaged in.
Why cant I stop thinking about counsellor between sessions?
Frequent phoning or texting of clients to “check up on them and make sure they’re OK.”